Yesterday,
due to the incident that sam had at her workplace that made her couldn't stop fretting,
left me thinking.
I believe the majority of us would really mind what people say about you or what they think about you. Sometimes, it's not that you want everyone to like you or perhaps not to have a bad impression of you but it just comes naturally.
I guess it's human nature that who behave this way.
We'll get paranoid.
We'll be very sensitive to what people think about us.
It'll bugged us for hours when we did something wrong and trying to assume or guess what others will think.
Although the best way is to not think about it but of course, it's easier said than done.
Just like what i've told sam. It's natural for people to behave that way but the difference is whether we show it or not. For sam, she does show her fretting and what not. However, i happened to be the opposite.
I often have these inner thoughts but i don't show it or seldom tell anyone.
due to the incident that sam had at her workplace that made her couldn't stop fretting,
left me thinking.
I believe the majority of us would really mind what people say about you or what they think about you. Sometimes, it's not that you want everyone to like you or perhaps not to have a bad impression of you but it just comes naturally.
I guess it's human nature that who behave this way.
We'll get paranoid.
We'll be very sensitive to what people think about us.
It'll bugged us for hours when we did something wrong and trying to assume or guess what others will think.
Although the best way is to not think about it but of course, it's easier said than done.
Just like what i've told sam. It's natural for people to behave that way but the difference is whether we show it or not. For sam, she does show her fretting and what not. However, i happened to be the opposite.
I often have these inner thoughts but i don't show it or seldom tell anyone.
So i think a huge part of my life is miserable.
We dont like hypocite but there are many around us. Probably, at times, we are one of them too. It's because we do not want to spoil our image in front of others. We don't want to be the bad guy. We think that we'll hurt other people's feelings if we are too straightforward or direct. Or maybe, we are just purely one.
Perhaps, somethings really can't be helped.
So... my point is, all these are human nature. Thus, if we want to live a happier life, we should just be ourselves and let others say what they want to say cause we can't stop them from saying what we don't want to hear. This is just life. However, can we just make it a point to not be one (hypocrite) cause you'll only make someone's life miserable? It's really tiring to guess what one thinks about you.
Or maybe, we are the ones who think too much?
Can you just don't act in front of me?
We dont like hypocite but there are many around us. Probably, at times, we are one of them too. It's because we do not want to spoil our image in front of others. We don't want to be the bad guy. We think that we'll hurt other people's feelings if we are too straightforward or direct. Or maybe, we are just purely one.
Perhaps, somethings really can't be helped.
So... my point is, all these are human nature. Thus, if we want to live a happier life, we should just be ourselves and let others say what they want to say cause we can't stop them from saying what we don't want to hear. This is just life. However, can we just make it a point to not be one (hypocrite) cause you'll only make someone's life miserable? It's really tiring to guess what one thinks about you.
Or maybe, we are the ones who think too much?
Can you just don't act in front of me?
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